A Sommelier’s Take on Finding Common Ground.

Election Day. For many, it’s a spirited occasion where, beyond casting a ballot, we’re practically swimming in strong opinions. But today, I propose we table those heated discussions about who’s right, who’s wrong, and who should be running the show. Instead, let’s toast to something undeniably delightful: wine—and the way it has this uncanny power to bring us together.

In the wine world, I’ve found the best conversations happen over a shared bottle, with glasses clinking, eyes bright, and laughs rolling out easily. Sure, we don’t always agree. In fact, a roomful of sommeliers and wine enthusiasts debating wine pairings can sound a lot like Congress during a filibuster. But, thankfully, our discussions have a much friendlier vibe, and they end with a pleasant buzz rather than a buzzkill.

So let’s treat our political conversations like we do wine pairings—let’s savor, listen, and respect each other’s “palates.”

Find Your “Common Ground” Grape

No matter your personal politics, there’s probably a wine we can all rally around. Are you a staunch Pinot Noir person? A die-hard Chardonnay defender? Or maybe you’re a Sauvignon Blanc champion? Great! Wine is a versatile beverage that invites a multitude of opinions without any door-slamming. Whether we’re swirling a glass of Napa Cab or toasting with a sparkling Prosecco, there’s one beautiful truth: no two people experience a wine the same way, and that’s precisely the beauty of it.

Finding a wine you both enjoy is like discovering common ground. If we can agree that a well-chilled rosé makes for a great afternoon, can we not also accept that there’s beauty in our differences?

Active Listening, Wine Tasting Style

A good wine tasting, much like a good conversation, starts with listening. When someone picks up hints of “stone fruit,” we don’t interrupt to say, “Actually, that’s citrus.” We listen, nod, and take another sip ourselves. Perhaps the same could be said about how we engage in dialogue on Election Day—give people room to share their perspective without trying to “correct” their taste.

Wine, after all, is subjective. So are opinions. But both deserve to be heard and respected. If someone says they’re getting a lot of oakiness and spice, don’t laugh at their palate. Respect their experience! The same goes for our broader opinions. Just as a good Cabernet can be layered with spice, fruit, and earthiness, our conversations should be layered with curiosity, open-mindedness, and empathy.

When in Doubt, Debate Wine

Let’s face it: few things lift the spirits like a lively discussion about wine and food pairings. So instead of clashing over policies, let’s settle down and debate something that’s sure to end on a happy note: what’s the best pairing for Thanksgiving turkey? Or, if we’re feeling bold, what’s the ultimate cheese for a Friday night wine board? Let’s debate the merits of Napa over Sonoma, or whether a Chardonnay needs oak. I guarantee no one will be walking away mad; at worst, you’ll just be craving a cheeseboard.

And if you do find yourself disagreeing, pour a little more. It’s hard to stay tense over a glass of Sancerre.

Here’s to Election Day! May our patience last as long as the line at the polls, may our conversations stay as smooth as a good Merlot, and may our disagreements be as fleeting as that last sip in the bottle. Cheers to democracy and to finally voting on something other than what’s for dinner!

Gregory Dean, SOMM&SOMM

Respect Palates and Preferences

Just as we all bring unique palates to the table, we bring unique perspectives. When I introduce someone to wine, I don’t judge if they like Moscato over Merlot, or insist they “have to try” a funky orange wine. Wine, like conversation, should be shared with an open mind.

As we go about our day, casting votes and making choices, let’s treat each other with that same respect. Pour a glass, lean in, and let’s make today less about division and more about connection. And remember, at the end of the day, it’s not who’s right or wrong but who brought the best bottle! Cheers to that 🍷

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