The holiday season is a time for joy, celebration, and, of course, the clinking of glasses filled with delightful wines. As sommeliers and wine educators, we understand the importance of creating a welcoming atmosphere for all wine enthusiasts, regardless of their level of expertise. In the spirit of the holidays, let’s explore some essential etiquette tips for bringing, drinking, and commenting on wine at festive gatherings.

One of the fundamental principles of wine appreciation is acknowledging the diversity of palates

Gregory Dean, SOMM&SOMM

Respect Diverse Tastes

People’s tastes vary widely, influenced by personal preferences, experiences, and cultural backgrounds. When bringing wine to a holiday party, opt for crowd-pleasers—versatile wines that can appeal to a range of preferences. However, it’s crucial to recognize that not everyone will adore the wines you’ve selected, and that’s perfectly acceptable.

Be open-minded and appreciate that individuals may have different taste sensitivities. Avoid taking offense if someone doesn’t particularly enjoy a wine you’ve chosen. Instead, focus on the shared enjoyment of the holiday season and the joy of coming together.

Commenting with Grace

Engaging in conversations about wine and food pairings requires finesse, especially when differing opinions arise. If you find yourself faced with a wine or dish that doesn’t align with your personal taste, resist the urge to express outright criticism. Instead, employ diplomatic language to share your thoughts.

For instance, you might say, “While I personally prefer a crisper white wine with seafood, this red wine offers a unique perspective that I can appreciate,” or “I find the bold flavors in this dish a bit overpowering for my taste, but I can see how it complements the wine for others.”

The key is to express your preferences without diminishing others’ enjoyment. Remember, everyone’s palate is unique, and the beauty of wine lies in its subjective nature.

Graciousness in Hosting

If you are the host and someone brings a bottle of wine that doesn’t align with your planned menu, embrace the opportunity to showcase your hospitality. Thank them sincerely for the thoughtful gesture and find a moment to share the wine. You might even discover a hidden gem that enhances the overall experience for your guests.

Encourage open dialogue about the wines being served, fostering an environment where guests feel comfortable sharing their thoughts. Emphasize the joy of exploration and the chance to broaden everyone’s understanding of different wine styles.

As we raise our glasses to celebrate the holidays, let us also raise our awareness of the diverse world of wine and the varied tastes that accompany it. By approaching wine with an open heart and an open mind, we can create a holiday atmosphere that is inclusive, gracious, and memorable for all. Cheers to a season filled with joy, appreciation, and the shared love of good company and good wine!

Cheers 🍷